This podcast is one of my favourites. It’s a great source of motivation, as each episode a member of the running community share their unique & inspiring story and running journey.
I was really excited when Nat asked if I would like to be a guest on the show. We had a great conversation about my recent Marathon Homecoming and the transformation from overweight new dad to marathon runner. I’m really pleased to share it with you.
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I made some notes in preparation for our conversation. So I thought I would share those with you, to accompany the podcast episode:
What do you do for a living?
- Project Manager for a Digital Agency
- Office is based next to a parkrun location
- Working remotely from home during the lockdown
How long have you been running and how did you get into it?
- Started May 2017 (running for 3 years)
- My Dad inspired me to start running – he ran the first ever Great North Run 1981 & London Marathon 1982.
- Dad & I ran Great North Run 2017 together to celebrate his 60th Birthday.
Great North Run
- Ran with my Dad to celebrate his 60th Birthday
- 54 mins faster than previous year.
- No formal training plan, just from April onwards running 3 times a week and a half marathon PB attempt once a month in the lead up to the event.
- Best race performance:
- Negative Splits
- 8 min PB
- 25 mins faster than GNR 2018
- 1 hour 19 mins faster than GNR 2017
- Surpassed my Dad’s fastest GNR time of 1:35
- Becoming a parent fundamentally changes you as a person.
- Wanted to be a role model and to inspire my daughter.
- This is why I run – #InspireGrace
- 1st Jan 2018 – decided to take a break from drinking and improve my diet by giving up takeaway food.
- By Aug 2018, I had lost 4 stone in total
- heaviest: 15st 1lb (96kg)
- now: 11st 1lb (70kg)
- However, weight loss was never the intention – it was just a happy accident.
- Shaved an hour and 20 mins off my half marathon time in 2 years.
What made you decide to quit drinking, what has this decision meant for your life?
- Haven’t drank for approaching two & half years
- Drinking was the one choice that led to other unhealthy choices:
- bad eating habits,
- poor quality sleep,
- laziness and lack of exercise.
- Whilst the physical benefits of not drinking are clear, it’s actually the clarity and focus that’s been most beneficial.
- Thursdays used to be my favourite day of the week.
- I am committed to being a positive role model for my daughter
- and trying to live a healthy lifestyle for the benefit of my family.
- Meditation was key to making the positive change. Slowing the pace of the day down, allow a pause to consider an alternative option.
- Started using Headspace in February 2017.
- Went onto meditate in a daily streak of 365 days in a row.
- Meditation was a primer, preparing for a mindset ready for change.
- It massively helped during the first year of transformation.
- It was a solid foundation, on which new positive habits & routines could be built.
- I now meditate using the Headspace app less often (particularly during marathon training) and use running as a meditative practice.
- Enjoying the solitude as an opportunity to connect with my body and ground myself, as I notice and become aware of the nature I run through.
- 90% of the time, I run without headphones.
- When I do run with music or a podcast, it’s for a specific purpose.
- I seem to appreciate listening to music when running more now, because it’s not the default.
- Breathwork is an active meditation
- I find it easier than stillness and other forms of meditation that focus on awareness and noticing the breath.
- I have found breathwork to be more intense and powerful too.
- If this has piqued your interest, I would recommend checking out Richie Bostock (@TheBreathGuy).
- Read a blog post about my experience of breathwork
- The following video is free 25 min guided breathwork meditation (+ 7 min intro), which I have found particularly helpful during lockdown to restore and rejuvenate, both body & mind:
Resolution Run (The lightbulb moment)
- March 2018: The exact moment that changed my life.
- March 2019: Longest marathon training run (38K), incorporating the 10K event.
- March 2020: My first ever 1st place finish.
- In front of cheering Dad, Daughter & Wife.
- One of the happiest moments of my life.
The main difference between these 3 photos above is belief.
- In 2018, I ran a 10K under an hour for the first time.
- My wife took this post-race photo and I didn’t recognise myself.
- I later discovered I had lost 2 stone and 6 lbs.
- From this moment, for the first time, I seen significant progress and started to consider, what if? I started to believe.
- I began to consider what was possible.
- Social distancing (or physical distancing) home marathon
- 26 x 1 mile loop – starting and finishing at my front door.
- As a dedication to my baby boy arriving in June.
- Originally trained for Edinburgh Marathon
- Raised £700 for NHS Charities Together, donation page still open:
- As an alternative option to a donation, I asked if the running community wanted to show their support by sharing a photo of themselves being active, to inspire others.
- I was overwhelmed with the amazing response and support from the community:
Seeking help from a mindset coach
- During my marathon training, I enlisted the help of mindset coach, Duncan Foster, of DSF Coaching.
- I was soon to discover that mindset is everything.
- When you are entrenched inside a marathon training block, it is easy to develop a tunnel vision towards the single goal. This sometimes can make it more difficult to see things from another’s perspective.
- I needed a fresh pair of eyes; from the outside looking in. An impartial sounding board; to listen. Someone to pose the right questions, that would prompt further reflection.
- Ultimately, this would lead to brainstorming, trouble shooting and creatively reaching a solution.
- I struggled with uncertainty of event postponement.
- My ‘race day’ vision was evolving and changing on a day to day basis.
- Lockdown and pregnancy added extra layers of complexity and difficulty to training.
- Made it more difficult to involve my family in the marathon training.
- Not completing the full 18 training plan would be deemed as a failure to myself.
- An outcome of my work with Duncan was to define the reasons for the marathon.
- I wrote my 6 reasons on my gels to periodically remind me during the race:
Watch the Marathon Homecoming video highlights:
From marathon event day:
- Duality between being the best athlete and best human/parent
- Run for meaning over time
- Letting go of expectation
From training block:
- Embrace flexibility in the training plan.
- Goals are fluid & changeable.
- Cutting 3 weeks off training plan is not a failure – it’s adapting to all influencing factors.
- The outcome of being adaptable is a better solution…
- A unique and personal marathon experience that allows it to be shared with my family, without risking their health, whilst also honouring my training to see what my best looks like.
- Watched Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things on Netflix around the time started running (June 2017),
- Started to streamline and simplify my life.
- Donated approx 70% of my possessions.
- Removing distractions and the excess created more time and space for reflection & growth.
- This helped me to plan & prepare and focus on what is important.
- I am in no doubt that, simplicity has significantly aided my running progress and transformation to a healthier lifestyle.
- Simplicity helps step out the door & start running with as little friction as possible.
- Project 333 is the minimalist fashion challenge by Courtney Carver, that invites you to dress with 33 items or less for 3 months.
- After adopting minimalism, one of the biggest changes was to my wardrobe. Whilst losing weight and improving my health & fitness, over the course of a year, I slimmed down from wearing an XL to a medium.
- I used Project 333 to become more intentional with the clothes I wore and purchased. This meant donating the clothes that no longer fit me. My body was changing at pace so it didn’t make sense to replace the clothes quickly.
- I now own less than 33 items of clothing, which are mostly dark, neutral, keeping things simple and avoiding colours requiring additional items to match. Investing in quality over quantity.
- Eventually, I replaced the full size wardrobe and draws with a simple clothes rail.
- Read the full blog article on Project 333.
Runner’s Capsule Wardrobe
- An extension of Project 333, a runner’s capsule wardrobe is a small collection of essential clothes and accessories that are well coordinated, catering for every occasion and weather condition.
- Read the full blog article on the Runners Capsule Wardrobe.
If you lived by a quote what would it be?
“White space is where the magic happens”Brian Gardner
Who would you love to hear on the podcast?
- Duncan Foster, DSF Coaching (@dsfcoaching)
- Marcus Brown (@themarathonmarcus)
Read Marcus’ Inspiring Guests Q&A interview
- Renee McGregor (@r_mcgregor)
- Dan Woodgate (@half_the_man_dan)
Read Dan’s Inspiring Guests Q&A interview
Listen to the full podcast episode below: